I am going to be an upcoming senior. I have wanted a baby for a while now, and me and my boyfriend have talked about it and we think we can be ready. he is getting a job in august that is going to give him full benefits, like medical and all that jazz, if he gets married. and we think we want a baby, of course we are taking a week while he is on his cruise to clearly think this over that way we arent there to influence each other, but i think i really want it, but i want to wait until like november or decemeber, bcuz its my senior year of colorguard and I want to enjoy it bcuz i have decided when i go to college i wont do it. but then december 24 i turn 18, and ill be on my own insurance wise, and im asking basically how that would work, like if i got insurance what exactly does that cover and not cover. Then i was thinking I want to go to prom, and graduate so I was thinking maybe try after prom or graduation night, prom night is like a month after graduation and it wouldnt be a huge
deal, i just kinda wanna know if what i am doing is smart. alot of people will say no that i should go on to college, but i want a baby and i am willing to wait til i at least graduate high school. plus with all the college crap down here with rapes and killings i kinda wanna do it online anyway. so is this really smart? and exactly how would the insurance work? and ill ask more questions as i think of them bcuz its hard to think of what exactly im trying to say in question form so i am just thinking of how to say it in alot form.
do not be mean either, like the fact im willing to wait.
wow alot of you all are more supportive then i thought. i like this. but yeah i know i keep putting it off and saying i wanna wait til this and that but i know for sure after colorguard, and i wanna walk the stage, and kinda wanna go to prom, i wouldnt die if i didnt. its not really my thing. but i know i will be in school for 10 years and i will be 28 by the time i get out, and i wanna have a baby before then bcuz i wanna be on baby 2 by 30. idk and i realize it wont be about me n him anymore and i realize this but i dont know if he does, after he gets back i am going to like make him sit and talk to me about this if we decide to do this. bcuz he is 19 and i am 17, so really idk i feel like im giving up more but i realize he would be giving up just as much. but if we got married then we would be supported medical wise which would help alot.
hes gonna make like 12 an hour. and they get raises out the butt. its a really good paying job. and ironically enough its a electrician job, but i think its alot of money that hes making bcuz its gonna be at y12,if yall had us history, youll know what that is. but yeah. and we are gonna take more then a week but like have at least a week to ourselves to think bcuz he has to be with me all the time so i was like think while your gone. and i know i could ultimately do this on my own if he left for some reason, but i highly highly doubt he will leave me.
and my parents got college covered. and if they dont then i can prolly try to get one off colorguard, ive kinda thought about that too but then id have to do it in college. lol its complicated there too.
i do love him, and i was thinking while making dinner, maybe wait. my first year of college, and see what happens, you know like if i even like what i wanna be, and maybe i will find out i can handle both the college and baby.